Wednesday, November 15, 2017

I lost trackof time....totally and completely!!!

Since motherhood started, did I write motherhood, yes I did!! It has been a focus between the baby and myself. She is no longer a baby but heading to being a toddler but I can tell you for free it isn't easy!! It had taken me years since I held one of my own in my arms. It felt like a totally new experience. I can now confidently state that every child in their own way is special to their own needs and requirements. This one being a girl also needs attention, she is all smiley but can get grumpy from time to time especially with lack of sleep and/ or hunger, if you think about it, a combination of the two would be a nightmare right in the middle of day! But am back!!!!

Anyway, all said and done, this journey has not been easy from making me feel completely useless to being too energetic for my own self!! Being a mother, wife, student and employee has taught me one thing in life, you can never be all that without hurting one or two items on your list. For someone like me who family is more than important and again a workaholic, it becomes difficult at times to strike a balance between the two. However, I have learnt that so far, you need to leave your office life at the office door the moment you are out of your workplace and put on the mum cap from then till when you leave your house/ home door the next day. Kids need attention and so does your work. If you have an understanding husband and boss then you are safe if one of them is not, you are in big trouble. Above all pray that you have a loving and understanding husband rather than boss since you can do away with your boss when need be but your family remains.

Too much said and done, my boy finally got a sister who is now 7 months and growing fast!!! I will soon have to sit down and listen to lots of stories as she is already in the gagaga stage and trust me, its a lot of gagagaga and I simply love it!

Next, what makes you tick?

Monday, May 16, 2016

Diary of Nekesah: Today, am changing....

Diary of Nekesah: Today, am changing....: Finally a post after like eons! lol...It does not really matter in this life until you make change or be the change that you long to have. C...

Today, am changing....

Finally a post after like eons! lol...It does not really matter in this life until you make change or be the change that you long to have. Change is good, as good as a rest they say and for me that time has finally come. A time to bring change and see what this change can do to their lives as well as mine. Change at times is inevitable so, I changed the title of my blog if you have noticed! That for once pretty shook me up as one of my readers asked if there are no Kenyan men for me to date? Well it got me thinking that perhaps when I started out that blog I was appealing to a certain group of people, but with time it narrows down to only a percentage, those I could relate with. I realized that that is not the message I wanted to take out there and more so, what I wanted people to know me for. I have values and principles, but one of them was not to be against nature..... I started asking a lot of questions hence decided to take a break from writing. This perhaps was to isolate myself and my own problems to allow for me to sort myself our first and then realize that in life its not always about me, myself and I but about the people around me. So I decided to make some changes. First was to accept the good man in my life that was God sent and yes I did. It helped, I can swear that it was tough at first having to plan things for two at times which for me was new! The only person I had planned with in mind was by then my son, who for some reasons would go with what I had in mind hence no much struggles. I have since adapted to this and I must say, its not that bad! Second I had to finish my class work, it has dragged, like forever but yes I am finally doing it, I am hopefully going to wear that hat this year!!!! That is very exciting for me....and I love the fact that I pushed myself and of course with a little push as well from my super supervisors!

So this year, is a year of change, change of titles and anything that comes with it. Maintaining my body weight, I have tried I must say. Maintaining is not easy, if you asked the many women out here. The struggle is real when you see chocolates, bread, french fries, burgers and all these junks we smell around our estates. You fight, but this year is a year of change, no falling and I ask God to give me strength to follow the path already created.

I cant wait to write about more changes that I am working on including the fact that I will have to learn how to swim this year, I had had a phobia for the longest period!!! That needs to change!!!

Truly, change is inevitable and am sure the next episode will even be more exciting!!!!

Thursday, May 21, 2015


Diary of Nekesah: CHANGING LIVES AND LOVING IT!: We do different things for a different course, sometimes we do it wrong, sometimes its fifty-fifty, and sometimes when there is a success st...


We do different things for a different course, sometimes we do it wrong, sometimes its fifty-fifty, and sometimes when there is a success story you actually see success! Seeing success take time in anything that anyone does and for most of us, giving up is a word we have lived with! I must say most of us give up easily at almost the break through moment point! Have to ever driven a car on top of a hill, a hill that you have never ever known before or heard about? That which you just find along your path? What goes through your head? If you are like me, your driving pace will slow down, simply because,you are not sure what is on the other side of the hill. At times some may turn back and try alternative routes...and if its the only route then perhaps others may never even wait to see what is behind the hill. When faced with such situation, my life choices always end up in the slow down mode! Mostly, the alert mode but keep on going on. I maybe among the 5% curious people who always want to know what is behind the hill and what it takes to get up that hill. The beauty of it is that once you are on top, going down is up to you! You can choose to remain up there and enjoy the beauty and view from on top, or roll down or put a free gear and just find yourself at the bottom! What am I trying to may be difficult and unsure and quite of a challenge to g
row any business that you find yourself in, but at the end of the day it is equally easy to loose what you have achieved in such a long and hard strife to grow and better yourself.

About 11 months ago, a friend of mine shared something with me, something that practically has made me think that perhaps life is not all about 8am to 5 pm every weekday, that it takes a strong person and determination to change your life, that fun is what you need when things are not working as it refreshes you and you are fulfilled enough to even achieve your freedom in life!That one needed about 7 main income streams to be able to be successful. It made me think of my parents, how they had to struggle to get the five of us a good education, we basically never lacked a thing. I did not know about their meager earnings until I was applying for my higher education loan! What am I trying to say, the lifestyle of most of us is get a good education land a good job that can afford you good loans for you to get a car and house and end us paying for it for over 10 years. How do the rich operate? They work hard, building their empires, look at most big companies, they have the business running, they create their own bank ( another business) to provide them with loans as well as keep their business money safe and if not enough, they have schools and hospitals where their children will go to and train to be doctors or businessmen and women so that in the end they can run their businesses. After my friend shared this information with me, I made a choice in life, to be more bold in my investments, to give a more listening ears to new opportunities and be open to new ideas as well. I signed up with my first MLM, yes Multi Level Marketing, with a twist I must say. Mother Teresa ( may God bless her soul) once said, God did not create poverty, but poverty exists because you and I do not share! I therefore take it upon myself to share these beautiful product with all my friends! I am glad to be part of a trillionaire industry that is growing and will grow to levels that no one ever imagine.

Pose right there, are you living or existing? This is a title that also caught me by surprise only to realize that I existed each and every day, I am yet to clear being in existence but am sure looking at the ultimate goal of living and making a living living. Most of us for sure exist, does this sound familiar....I have a Monday to Monday already pre-planned schedule such that if anyone interfered with it, it would mean I would have to go an extra mile to be a part of their deal...yes, I have a pretty good job, actually the envy of many, I travel a lot, meet new people, mostly CEOs and top directors in the Agricultural sector...yeah, either am driving somewhere leaving my house at 6 am and checking into a hotel at around 10 pm in the night or I am in the office by 9am and leave by 5 if not 6 pm. Most of the times, I am on my phone which makes my better half, did I say better half,oops! yes I did, and yes this is a story for another day, so annoyed and in more than enough cases he has to take the phone away from me and at times we even fight because of this!I work half day on Saturday which means I get home only after 2 pm at times if nothing haas come up at the office and have to start cleaning the house. Sunday of course if rest and church day and at times stay at church till noon have perhaps a family meeting and life cycle of Monday begins again. I can bet 100% that you and I share the same lifestyle. Maybe mine is a little bit more flexible these days thanks to my new club!

My life has practically changed!Thanks to my MLM! I love doing what do now more than ever. As for my 8-5 usual, I know I am soon going to kiss you goodbye and work towards achieving more for myself and building my empire. I cannot wait for that day! I love the fact that I will be able to do what I love most, cater for the needy and have time to actually follow up and give more time to them! That is what my purpose is, to love and change lives and put a smile on those who are not able to it by themselves!

Living it and loving it!

Monday, May 11, 2015

KENYA FRESH FRUIT JUICES: Tongue confusion.....

KENYA FRESH FRUIT JUICES: Tongue confusion.....: Well, I went on to try out the minute maid brand and quencher brand of Juices... Minute Maid A product of Coca Cola...When it first star...

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Diary of a Single Mother: Twisted minds.....

Diary of a Single Mother: Twisted minds.....: This was to be published last might have been one of those days! Well ave been off for quite a while now as I have had a crazy tra...